Experiencing Lasting Joy

I remember the first time I heard the lyrics of the song, You are For Me.  The chorus went, “I know that you are for me. I know that you are for me. I know that you will never forsake me in my weakness.”  I was pregnant for the ninth time and I had lived the last 14 weeks in total fear of what could happen. I had been blessed with four healthy children, but had also experienced four miscarriages. No “number of weeks” was safe for me because I had gone as far as five months before miscarrying. I was living like a shaking leaf and I couldn’t get a hold of myself. This wasn’t like my positive optimistic self at all. The losses had wrecked me.

The night I heard this song for the first time, I literally sat on the ground against the wall in my kitchen and wept. The Lord was speaking to me. “Ruth, I am for you. I know you are so weak right now, but I won’t leave you. I am fighting for you.” I can’t even explain the peace that washed over me as this truth became clear…and I listened again and again...

Ruth Schwenk is sharing part of her story today and you can read the rest of her post on Chapter 10 of Dancing With My Father today at The Better Mom. We are so glad you've joined us at the book club and look forward to the next one in January!

When You Feel Inadequate As a Mom

Many of you who have attended a Mom Heart Conference or attended a Mom's Intensive in Monument, have fallen in love with my sweet friend, Deb Weakly. She does life with me and ministry and I don't know what I would do without her. But the most important part about her story is that she is an overcomer and lives excellently and inspires everyone she meets. So I asked her to share a little of her story here today. 

With love from Deb!

I have only heard the audible voice of God two times in my life. 

The first was 24 years ago, the night that I met my husband. Don't get excited-it's not what you think.

I did not hear a voice from heaven say "Here is your husband. " Actually, the voice said: "Don't smoke in front of him." You see, I was not a Christian at the time, so I smoked, drank, etc.. Apparently, heeding the voice worked. He liked me! He took me to church, and I gave my life to God a few months later.

The second time I heard the voice of God apart from scripture was actually this morning.

I have been struggling with thinking that I have been inadequate in the area of schooling my second child, Jack. My daughter, Christie, was very driven all through her home school years. Jack is laid-back and what I like to call a "plodder." He's one who takes all day to get things done, but does them and is just really relaxed with everything in his life. He is super sweet and loves God. Even as a sixteen year old boy, he is super kind and gracious. Yet all I could think about over the past couple of days was the fact that I am not doing a good job- that I was failing him somehow.

Even before I was a Mom, I was afraid that I would mess up any kids. That was a big reason why I chose only to have two children- lack of faith in myself that I could actually raise up children who would love God--especially given my past!   I had struggled before I came to Christ and had made many mistakes and  I worried about my shortcomings. My lack of formal education added to my inadequacy. Last, but not least, I had no idea or model of how to have a christian home. My past still haunts me from time to time, even though I know in my heart that I am forgiven and redeemed and that I have a new heritage and lineage because I walk with God. But that old flesh and the devil still messes with me and tells me that I am not good enough.

Yet, God is so great! He sees us and knows what we need. Today, I needed to hear His voice telling me truth about my situation.

I had just finished exercising and was stretching and listening to worship music when I started thinking about the fact that I really should have taught Jack how to use a planner a long time ago. Instantly I was under attack, with thoughts rushing in about what a failure I am for not being consistent with him in this and several other educational-type areas. I started thinking that maybe I should have sent him to school. Surely he would have been taught how to use a planner there. It was my decision to homeschool, which I truly believe God had directed me to, that was mostly under attack.

It was then that I heard God speak to me so audibly that I could not believe it. He said, "You have to answer to Me for Jack! I have specific plans for his life. He is a leader and I have called you to homeschool him. I will teach him what he needs to know. Jack belongs to me!"

Then He reminded me of a beautiful verse, (which is usually how I hear from God). It was Isaiah 54:13.

All your children shall be taught by the LORD, and great shall be the peace of your children."

He said ALL. He is teaching both of my kids for me! No matter my past, my inadequacies, my failures- He is teaching my children and great will be their peace because of that! Wow!! Thank you Lord!

If you are  reading this and you are struggling with the same feelings that I was., I want to tell you that you can trust your God! He will help you every step of the way with your children.Whether it's homeschool or public school, whether you're struggling with feeling inadequate in the way you disciple or educate them, whether you're dealing with bad attitudes or learning disabilities ... Whatever it is, He will help you. You are not alone, and neither are they! God will help you to do whatever it is that He has called you to do. Have a wonderful day and know that God is teaching your children, and He will be their peace.

 Deb has a passion for discipleship and prayer that reaches around the world. She has led discipleship groups for the last 16 years- focusing on the art of the prayer-filled life as wife, mom and woman of God. Deb is a frequent speaker at women's groups and has hosted International Leaders in her home with Momheart Ministries. Her favorite ways to spend her time include time with God in the morning on her favorite brown couch, with the fire burning, candles lit, hot tea and Bible in hand, while snuggling with her dog, Haylee; coffee time on Saturday mornings on that same couch with her husband of 20 years, Randy, and visiting with her kids, Christie(19), and Jack (16), while they sip assorted hot beverages. Deb hopes that her couch does not wear out soon.

* used blog 11/2020 There will always be giants in the land.......

Peter Paul Rubens

"There will always be giants in our land. There will always be circumstances, people and matters of life that could potentially threaten to overwhelm us.

Perhaps the icy cold fingers of fear squeezing out all of the hope in one's heart for what might happen

to a child, a job, a marriage, a life;

the darkness of depression hanging heavily as a cloud over all the moments of a day;

exhaustion and weariness dragging the body stumbling through foggy moments of day;

illness that threatens to overwhelm life;

a marriage that bruises and wounds deep where no one else sees;

bitterness or blame that steals each moment of thought into death and hate;

loneliness so palpable and sad, the obscurity of being unknown in life's burdens and ignored and uncared for;

All and more might be the Giant's names, and yet,

 The grace and beauty of a mother, deciding to stand up to the threats of the giant,

to attack her would-be foe, with weapons of heaven's design,

This warrior mama, who understands civilizing her home, can make her giant story one of a memory of the power of God.

When she understand the import of the civilizing of our lands, our homes, our families,

these the foundations of a future adult generation that will exercise moral courage and fortitude.

and exhibit strength in places of leadership,

she understand that our children are watching us as we exhibit courage, so that some day, they will know how to be courageous.

And so, we mamas exhibit strength instead of fear, so that some day they will be strong.

We have to make the choice to believe in God, and in His ability to provide for us...

When we do, we will be freed to celebrate His goodness in front of our little audience who are learning how to live by faith in our presence...

It is natural to whine and complain or to be selfish and unloving,

It is natural to react to giants in all of their bigness and to withdraw in crumbling cowardess.

But it is supernatural to praise and be thankful and to choose to express love and faith,

and one foot in front of the other faithfulness that is a choice.

To look our giant in the face and say, "You come to me with sword and spear, so to speak,

But I come to you, my giant, in the name of the Lord of hosts and He will

protect me, provide for me and be with me

and all of His host of angels is on my side,"

this is the choice to be courageous, beyond our feelings.

Even when  feelings don't agree, one can choose to live in obedience to what is known about His character being  true-

supernaturally, walking in the power of His Holy Spirit...

saying with all one's heart, by faith and the conviction of planting a flag of belief, "He is good. He is faithful and true and He will save me, in His time--and all things will work together for good and I will see it when I am with Him looking at it from His eyeview."

So today, look for joy. Seek out beauty.

Look the giant in the eye and claim the victory that is there for the asking, Model to your children what it means to live in celebration of God's marvelous life. Look for the miracles that might otherwise  go unnoticed each day.

And this will be your story--one of beauty, a legacy in the memories  of your little ones, the  heroic moments, burned lovingly, skillfully, poignantly

in the pathways of  your children's hearts and minds, to be emulated in the future moments of their own lives."

So where is our victory over our future? It lays deep inside the potential of what each home can become,

when giants are brought to size, and righteousness and redemption of each precious moment prevails.

Sally Clarkson

 (Partially excerpted from The Mom Walk, the rest new thoughts.)














There will always be things that could potentially threaten to overwhelm us.













We have to make the choice to believe in God, and in His ability to provide for us...













When we do, we will be freed to celebrate His goodness...













It is natural to whine and complain or to be selfish and unloving,













but it is supernatural to praise and be thankful and to choose to express love and faith.













Even when my feelings don't agree, I can choose to live supernaturally...













So today, look for joy. Seek out beauty.













Model to your children what it means to live in celebration of God's marvelous life.













Look for the miracles that go unnoticed each day."













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And today, another encouragement for Joy from Dancing with My Father.....

I might be a stay at home mom ... but I work hard.Sometimes, too hard. Oh, not at cooking and cleaning necessarily--those things I work at, and most of the time my work ... well, it works. If I clean something, it's clean ... at least for a few minutes. And if I cook a meal, we'll all be full ... at least until someone remembers I bought cookie dough ice cream at the grocery store.

 It's the other kind of work that can wear me down, overwhelm me, make me want to hide under covers some mornings. The really tough work: the soul shaping, question-answering, discipling kind of work that has so much at riding on how well I do it. Or so I think...

Please join us for the rest of the post today from Misty Krasawski at MomHeart online, where we are wrapping up our final week of studying Dancing With My Father!

Mentoring Monday Laying Foundations for Discipline

Edward Petrovich Hau

Cottage talk is one of our girls' favorite subjects. As they grow toward independence, they often speak of moving into their own places and bilding a haven for themselves and their own families. This includes their taste in architecture, decorating, colors, favorite pieces of art and furniture. To build an atmosphere and to design comfort and beauty and functionality in a home, requires forethought, skill, materials, planning and then a lot of sweat equity.

The same is true of child discipline--or building your home into a place of character building, development of moral character, cultivating faith, teaching manners, modeling mature relationships, slowly building and understanding of love and how to express it and so much more. Each of these facets builds a place that can also reflect beauty, values, personality and excellence.

But the building of any kind of superior, lasting house, spiritual or real, does not happen in the midst of merely reacting to life.  This sort of house must be planned and formed and shaped with wisdom, skill and with diligence.

Today, I speak about building foundations for your own heart and soul so that you will have a grid from which you plan in building the foundations of your own children's lives and hearts.

Now, I know that many people say, "Sally, if it is longer than 4 minutes, no one will listen." So, my feelings are not hurt if you do not want to take the time to listen. I do these blogs in case they help and encourage some of you who so long for encouragement and instruction. It is my heart-felt conviction that God wants me to be an encouragement to moms as I so needed it as a part of how I can serve Him. So, my heart service is for Him  and in hopes that however long or short these videos are, you may not feel alone, but hopefully helped.

I do pray for all of you who read here daily--that you will find God to lift your burden--that you will find friends to meet with to encourage you along this important path and that you will understand how very much your dedication to raising your children for His pleasure and glory will matter for eternity.

And I pray you may have a week filled with the knowledge and awareness of His love for you and for the precious ones who have been trusted into your hands.

Have a lovely week!

Celebrating Saturday with Snow!

Light snow wafting through the air and painting frost art on the trees makes me bubble up with excitement. The quiet and beauty of a new snow can bring delight to my heart.

Snow means cuddling up inside with my George Winston, December, softly filling the room with piano celebration of the season.

Hot tea and hot chocolate will be continuously simmering in the kitchen.

Something warm and sweet will come out of the oven--7 layer bars or butterscotch oatmeal cookies.

Light dancing on the walls from the fireplace glow and shadows will draw everyone to the hearth.

And so snow gives me another day to celebrate and make our little haven a place of friendship shared, love poured out, conversations bubbling and books and magazines being consumed by our firelight reverie.

And it always brings to mind the poem I would read to the children when they were small, and eventually it was seared into each mind so that they all repeat the lines when we talk of the beauty of our snowland.

Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening

Whose woods these are I think I know. His house is in the village, though; He will not see me stopping here To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer To stop without a farmhouse near Between the woods and frozen lake The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake To ask if there is some mistake. The only other sound's the sweep Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark, and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.

Robert Frost
So, how are you going to enjoy your Saturday?

The Atmosphere of Home

I'm so happy to introduce you to Brenda Nuland's daughter, Stephanie, today!~ Sally

On a recent family trip, I enjoyed having the chance to sit more than once in a new favorite coffee shop eating crepes and lemon-berry cake with mascarpone cheese filling, sipping my creme brulee latte and reflecting on the effect the cozy setting had on me. Settling in to a comfortable leather side chair, I basked in the ambience of soft lighting, gleaming hardwood floors, beautiful and interesting art work, soft rugs, and a fun array of fixtures and decor ranging from piles of old books to antique cameras and an old library catalog whose drawers now hold packets of sugar and coffee stirrers.

When I find myself in such a place, the interior designer in me is awakened and the wheels in my head start spinning madly as I imagine endless combinations of paint colors, furniture, lighting, and decorations; trying to picture the result in my own home. I spent much time while I was away planning changes I’d like to make upon my return, preparing to pull out the paintbrush the moment we pulled into the driveway.

However, something happened to slow me down. (Note I didn’t use the word “stop”…just “slow”!!)

While away, we were in at least five different houses, as varied in size and style as their inhabitants were from one another in personality and family dynamic. Only one inspired me with ideas on the level of style and design, and yet this one seemed lacking in warmth and life simply due to the fact that the owner is never home, though we greatly enjoyed our visit with her.

The other homes had one or more rooms that featured shabby or outdated decor. Mismatched furniture. Peeling paint. Piles of stuff here and there. But I took away a valuable lesson from each one. There was the big farmhouse full of love and gracious speech and the smell of homemade bread as we shared a meal with a large homeschooling family. Or the small house tucked away in a quiet and friendly neighborhood on the outskirts of a city with its bright yellow living room, quirky restaurant booth in the kitchen, and large covered deck with funny mismatched outdoor seating where we enjoyed a relaxed meal off the grill and my children played in a treehouse, pelting each other with water balloons before being whisked off for a ramble through the woods.

I realized two things. That my home is well-kept and nicely decorated (given limitations of time and budget), and no matter how many improvements I make to it, the atmosphere of my home will depend most on the warmth and generosity of my family’s hospitality. Would I like to have the best of both worlds? Sure! But the truth is, no measure of remodeling or redecorating, no paint color or club chair, no lighting or landscaping, will ever have as much impact on my guests as smiles and laughter and hugs and great conversation can have when offered generously without ceremony.

So tidy up a little, prepare a simple meal, and don’t stress about the tear in the couch and the pile of shoes by the door. Greet guests with a smile and extend grace to each soul that enters, for the atmosphere that you create goes so far beyond paint and pictures, and is at its best and brightest when it originates with a loving spirit, spilling over to every corner of your home. Nourishing body and soul far surpasses merely inspiring  a guest with a decorating idea. Leave that for HGTV.

Stephanie Wilbur lives in New England with her husband and five beautiful children ranging in age from 2 to 10. You can find her most days reading inspiring books to her children by the fire or in the kitchen with her daughter whipping up a batch of delicious cupcakes. Passionate about all things British, her "perfect day" involves a cup of tea, a cream scone and a Jane Austen movie. She loves to read widely, discuss theology, cook and decorate, and diligently serve her local church body.

You can find her writing at Cottage Thoughts.

Election Days & Advent

As usual, our family has been having a lot of great conversations about life, the election, teaching people how to think Biblically, and how to view history and leaders through the grid of a Biblical world view. Thoughts were bubbling up in Sarah, so she wrote a wonderful blog post about it. Thoughts to ponder--let me know what you think.

The morning after election night came early for me. I sat in the blue dawn darkness on my couch with a cup of strong tea. I needed it after the buzz of the night. My own thoughts and the voices of countless newscasters and friends spun and blazed in my mind, forbidding sleep or peace of thought. The angst and turmoil expressed by so many the night before troubled me as I sat sipping my tea. My open laptop and a slim book sat with me and I turned to them, hoping for insight in sorting out my thoughts.

The computer came first, because, well, it is immediate and blinking and tends to snare my eye before I can resist. I found the online conversation from the night before unabated. Every few seconds another quote or opinion, another post of joy (with numerous exclamation points and capital letters) or deep lament (with grim predictions) at the turn of the evening’s events flashed onto my screen. I scrolled through them until the fury of hope and confusion, fear and faith screamed so loudly in my brain that I felt my very vision was clouded. I shut the computer and when I could see straight, turned to my book instead.

I expected to be calmed, for my reading was a collection of Advent reflections. Odd, and a bit early in the season, I know. But my past year has been one of such constant noise and hurry that I am desperate these days for something to quiet my heart. Advent is about the coming of Christ into the world, about creating space for him – something I deeply need. I was ready to escape into the broad, white northland of contemplative thought. But escape never came. For the Christmas story and Advent thoughts that I found in my book spoke with surprising power to the concerns of after-election morning. Further, as worry released its grip on my heart, an iron conviction took its place.

I realized that election season and Advent are both about the coming of powerful kingdoms. Both have to do with the human cry for the world to be healed and both have to do with rulers who promise to accomplish that desire. The language of holy prophecy and campaign promise are shockingly similar. As I read ancient verses about the grace and healing promised to us through Jesus and his kingdom of heaven, I was struck to realize that the claims of the presidential candidates sound eerily the same. Those two very human leaders have spent a frenzied year convincing us that they are the ones to bring hope and change, peace and prosperity, health, equality, and freedom. Messianic claims, those.

Do we, I wonder, almost believe them? Of course we all know that only God really saves, but maybe we get a little weary at the fallenness of the world and we hunger to see the kingdom of God come with more distinction. The lines between heaven and earth get blurred when we look at the leader of our choice and think that he “gets” the brand of redemption we believe in. If he is elected, we think, then God’s kingdom can come more swiftly, more fully, more tangibly. The right president, we feel, might usher in a bit of peace on earth.

It’s a natural impulse. We are eager to bring God’s life into this troubled, aching world, and it seems logical that God would want us to support leaders who can do his will on a grand, immediate scale. So when the leader we thought was righteous falls and fades before the triumph of a leader we mistrust, our fear is for something more than just the direction of our country. Conversely, the triumph of our chosen man portends more to us than good government. We mourn or rejoice as if the kingdom of heaven itself was in the balance.

But it never is. That’s the truth I realized as I read about the coming of Christ in my Advent book today. There never has been a single king or kingdom on earth that could stop or slow or even speed the coming of Jesus into this world. Herod certainly couldn’t keep the little King from entering his realm, the pharisees couldn’t keep him silent, and Ceaser himself couldn’t stop people from loving Christ enough to die. All the bluster and sputter of rulers down the ages have never halted the coming of Christ and his kingdom and this is why: the kingdom of God comes, not through human governments, but in human hearts.

The story of Advent and the holy day to which it leads us is the tale, not of overcoming power, but of redemptive love. Jesus brings the rule of his kingdom into the world by entering the wrecked house of the human heart and building it into the palace from which he reigns. The kingdom comes when God’s love so completely rules in our hearts that our actions become his own. This kingdom grows not by the influence of government, or the power of any one person, but by Love spreading from heart to heart so that slowly, the kingdom burns in a hundred, then a thousand, then a million hearts. That’s when the rest of the earth begins notice.

You can read the rest of the post here at thoroughlyalive.com where Sarah blogs.

Dancing Joyfully, Even in Pain

Life gives us plenty of opportunities to practice what we "preach," doesn't it? It seems there's always something negative happening that presses me to remember that God is still on the throne, there is still something beautiful about the world, and there is a reason to light a candle rather than curse the darkness. As Ruth Schwenk shares this morning ...

Sometimes life doesn’t make sense. As we grapple with heartache our focus must be turned to God. Through 5 miscarriages, the sudden and tragic loss of my father-in-law to a car accident 2 years ago, and the death of my mother-in-law just days ago this is something I have had to remember over and over again.

To dance in the midst of terrible suffering is to resolve, “I will not be a victim. I will not allow this situation to determine the response of my heart, because I have this life, this chance to trust God, to show his reality through my circumstances. I resolve to remain strong and faithful because of the loving God who holds my hand.” ~Sally Clarkson, Dancing With my Father

I hope you will join me today for a video plus the rest of the discussion of  Chapter Eight of Dancing With My Father at The Better Mom. Join me too, in prayer for sweet Ruth as she's traveling with her family and supporting her husband, who has lost both his father and now mother in just the past two years, and will be the one to lead her funeral service in the next few days.

Life As It Is, Versus Life As We'd Like It

***I am so grateful to have my dear friend, Brenda Nuland, sharing with us here today, as I take a bit of a blogging break!~ Sally***

Do you ever find yourself frustrated with the way your life is compared to what you would like it to be?  I do quite often.  God has shown me my attitude has much to do with having peace about what I desire and reality and I'd love to pass on some of what He has shown me, hoping it will bring comfort to you in your journey.

We can choose to have faith that God is in control of our lives. By spending time in the Word, reading books by and about people of faith, and listening to music that feeds the soul...we build inside of us a deep reservoir to use in the challenges of daily living.

We don't need to be going through a great trial to need strength for living. Sometimes I find it easier to pray for a large need than for money to fill the van with gasoline. Little things need big faith, too.

We can choose to learn what we do not know.  I have been making a home for over thirty years and there is a great deal I still do not know about all the aspects of home-making.

I continue to learn how to better clean house and do laundry, ways to decorate my home, gardening skills I need...lots of gardening skills I need, recipes to try out, decisions to make about next semester's schooling, books to read...miles to go before I sleep, miles to go.

We can choose beauty in a world that gets darker every day.  I work at making things beautiful. I study the library books, magazines, articles, etc. in an attempt to find new inspiration. My home has to be a sanctuary from this world for all of us who live here.

I thought at one time I'd love to decorate in a Shabby Chic color scheme with big cabbage roses in pictures and on pillows.   However, that was not to be in a small house with two men. Fortunately, they both liked the lace on the windows, the teapots and teacups, the vintage look of the kitchen, the shelves of books and more books, all items men can live with.

They both appreciated the results of a morning baking in the kitchen along with coffee or tea (or a large glass of cold milk for my son). They liked the flowers planted, the herbs in containers, the rocking chair on the porch and the aromas when the door was opened and they stepped into... home.

This world should be a comfortable place in which to live...it isn't.  My home can be quite comfortable, though. I like soft sofas and chairs, throws everywhere for when it gets cold, pillows abounding, hot drinks on cold days, flannel housecoats, comfortable clothing (washed and put away where they belong), clean bed linens, quilts, and soft cats.

However... there is more to being at peace and comfortable than our choice of the stuff around us.

This world ought to be filled with grace and it is not.  Only in my home can I have some control over grace filled words and atmosphere. It has not always been grace filled.  There have been plenty of days when tempers flared and words were spoken because the people living here were exhausted and cranky. However, because grace is sought after and important, there is always the hope (and plan) for peace to follow forgiveness.

For most of us, we do not stay within the walls of our home all day, every day. Life is often lived on the other side of the front door, whether family members work outside the home or simply must run the necessary errands required of keeping a home.

We attend church and other meetings. We take part in school activities whether they involve homeschooling, public schools, private schools, universities or preschool. We volunteer, we hold public office, we do what we are called to do to be salt and light in the world.

But at the end of the day... there must be a place where we come home to a world a little closer to what it ought to be.

It will never be perfect this side of eternity. But when there are people making an attempt, doing their best, putting thought and energy into bringing a little bit of Heaven into this fallen world for their family (in spite of the fact reality is far from perfect and perfection can never be reached) then we are at least heading in the right direction toward hearing "well done good and faithful servant".

Brenda lives in the American Midwest near a major University.  She loves good coffee, tea served in lovely English teacups, old books, and decorating with vintage thrift store finds. 

Brenda has been married for over thirty years and brings her experiences of raising a daughter and her "surprise child" son born twelve years later. Her daughter is now a homeschooling mother to five children and her son is graduating from college and getting married this year.  They are her favorite people on the planet along with her high maintenance Maine Coon cat named Victoria. Brenda also writes at her blog Coffee, Tea, Books and Me.

The Joy of Friendship that sustains the heart

Behold, how good and how pleasant it is For brothers to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious oil upon the head, Coming down upon the beard, Even Aaron’s beard, Coming down upon the edge of his robes. It is like the dew of Hermon Coming down upon the mountains of Zion; For there the Lord commanded the blessing—life forever." ~Psalm 133

I love this picture! Not only because the colors are so soft and beautiful, but because it depicts women working together--and, I'm sure, enjoying their work so much more for the comaraderie.

We're talking about the joy to be found in God's gift of friendship today at MomHeart.

We need look no further than our computer/phone screens for proof of this chapter’s title! Facebook, Twitter, Instagram … all full of, “Look where we went!” and, “Guess what my child just did?” and, “You have to try these amazing cupcakes!”

Yep. Delight multiplies when we experience it in community—even after the fact.

God knew it would be this way..."

After a full morning out chattering, talking, laughing and sharing deep soul issues with Sarah, my 28 year old daughter at a little French cafe, my joy became "fuller" because I felt heard, understood, shared life and lived in the love we have shared over many years. Joy was meant to be relational. We must work diligently in this isolationist world to build relationships.

I hope you'll pop over to MomHeart Online today for the rest of this discussion on chapter seven of Dancing With My Father!

And I pray you find yourself surrounded by friends. If not, maybe you'll be inspired to find some? Many around you are lonely, too! Invite someone over for tea, or out for a lunch date or something fun. And do it soon! You won't regret it.