What I've learned through my very basic gardening efforts is that a garden without a plan and careful attention will probably grow something. Sometimes it will even show patches of beauty, but it's not likely to grow into the peaceful, productive place I want it to be.

If our gardens need cultivating to grow well, our children need that attention much more. Seeds of excellence and grace must be planted and tended. The weeds of selfishness and bad attitudes must be plucked. The plot must be protected so that the wild storms and prevailing winds of culture will not damage the fruit.

In addition, wise food for thought and the finest of art, music, literature, hospitality, and creativity muse be fed to fertilize the soul so that the child may grow fruitful and productive.

Children do not accidentally become mature adults of strong character, great faith, gracious relational skills, effective leadership qualities, and sharp intellects. God's design includes the presence of a hands-on gardener, a mother, to tend and cultivate their hearts, minds, souls, and relationships.

As a garden cannot flourish without a gardener, neither can a child reach his or her potential without someone committed to careful cultivation.

Seeing myself as a gardener is helpful to me as I think of my mission as a mother. After all, I want more for my children than just getting them to adulthood. I want them to thrive. I want them to grow up confident and civilized. I want them prepared to live as abundantly as possible. For that to happen, I need to do a little intentional "gardening."

This week, I'm walking my book club through what it means to cultivate the soul of our children's souls, build strong family relationships, and create an appetite for excellence. I so hope you'll join me on Life With Sally for our book club, talking and sharing ideas in the community forum, exclusive podcasts and videos, and free printables and workbooks!