A Time for Everything

“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” Ecclesiastes 3:1

In life, I have had to learn that no one else in the world will be responsible for my over-all well being. I have a husband and children who love me, but I am responsible for my rest, my quiet time, my eating and exercise and my chill time. I do have countless emails in my inbox that I would love to answer, and there are tasks calling my name around the house, but I have become the queen of turning my head away and sticking to my priorities. I have found that there will be just as many things screaming for my attention tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow. But today, I know that my body and mind need a little rest and that when I am a steward of my body, I am protecting my walk with the Lord. I am always simplifying and evaluating if something is worth the effort! I do think that making things beautiful and special during the holidays, birthdays, vacations etc. is worth the effort, as it builds the taste and values and work ethic and ministry skills of my children–-but all in its season. Sometimes I know that it may not be worth it to answer one more phone call or one more email–as this will certainly steal from my children and husband, who need me today.

Each of us has a different puzzle...Read more at Mom Heart Online and join the conversation there, won't you?

Making Friendships Happen

An Overnight with Friends--we do life and ministry together

I hope all of you had a wonderful Easter with your sweet families. Memories were made with Joel and Joy, Clay and me. We experience different family culture with each combination of kids who happen to be living home and it is fun  as long as there are some children who are home. Friends who are like family also had us for a feast of sorts to close the day with grateful hearts.

I was recently remembering how many times I have felt alone or dry both spiritually and emotionally, but when I entered into the company of several particular friends, I always left feeling stronger, encouraged, with more true thoughts about life and the Lord to feed on. These women have an intentionality about their spiritual lives and so I know when I invest time with them, I will be investing in my own spiritual well-being. God created community to be a regular part of our lives, and yet it doesn't just come about by fate--community in this time of history is always precious and has to be developed by planning and intention.

Last summer, twelve women, bedecked with scarves, sparkling earrings, glossy lips, gathered in the garden gazebo deep in the mountains of Colorado. Polite chattering and soft laughter rang through the cluster of women introducing themselves to one another.

As we moved through a tea buffet, piled high with chocolate strawberries, cream scones, raspberry jam and tiny heart-shaped finger sandwiches, we began to ease into the grace of the morning.

Gathering us on her nearby covered porch, around wicker chairs and patio couches, my friend said, “I have invited all of you here today because you have a story to tell.”

Seems that two of her old high school classmates from 40 years before had stopped in town, and my friend wanted these old friends to hear the testimonies of a number of her godly friends, (us!), who had been invited with a purpose. All of us were women of differing ages, but have been involved in groups or Bible studies or ministries with my friend, and she thought she wanted her friends, who were not believers, to have an opportunity to hear of the love of God in a way that would touch their hearts.

“I want each of you to tell a story from your life of how God has been faithful to you, something that is dear to your heart.”

As we circled around each other, life stories began to spill out. Stories of childhood, during World War 2; illnesses from which women had recovered; money that had been provided in the nick of time for a downpayment on a home; newly-wed stories of love and romance. Two hours of story-telling filled our hearts and made such a sweet memory.

As I left, I realized that my friend had set the parameters for a tea party, but because of her intentional planning, the Lord had showed up and filled each of our emotional cups.

Often, women say to me, “No one ever invites me over or calls me.”

If we wait for others to invite us, we may wait for a very long time. An isolationist culture where we don’t know our neighbors and attend big churches where we do not even know most of the people sitting next to us in the pew, has left many people feeling lonely and empty emotionally.

Having moved 17 times, 6 times internationally, I have learned that friendships really don’t usually just happen. Most of the community I now have, have happened as a result of me calling people, having gatherings in my home, making memories with women who inspire me. It is like planting a garden. When I till the soil and plant the seed of love, encouragement, thoughtfulness and reaching out, the seeds of friendship just naturally grow.

I have looked for women who are above me in age, who are wiser and cultivate in me a desire to love God more. I call them, take them out, invite them over—because I know what I sow in the garden of my soul, I will reap. And so I sow times with these women.

Next, I look for peers, those women who are at my stage of life, who share the same issues and needs. I have two prayer partners in the same stage of life as me. One calls me every day and we just pray for each other and find out how each of us is doing. The other friend comes to my house once a week and we go walking along a beautiful trail near my house, and after we have caught up on life, we pray for one another.

Finally, I love spending time with women who are younger than me. Young women who are cultivating their ideals bring fresh and vibrant beauty to my soul.

All of these wonderful friends started with a plan—to invite them into my life; with a purpose, because I needed accountability and love and with a blessing, because I needed to be loved!

This is the reason we are cultivating mom heart groups. We want women to meet around the Word, cultivate friendship, encourage each other in their ideals and to develop long term strength for themselves within their ideals.  We will continue to have more to help you as we seek to provide books, and material that will provide for drawing women together over Biblical ideals. However, all you have to do is pray for God to show you some people, invite friends and then ask them to tell their stories as you share your walk with God, your family and your wishes and hopes with them.

Another blog community is also seeking to gather women together that you might enjoy. It is a  meet up and week-end of community gatherings to encourage and cultivate community and friendships. You can find info about this gathering here:http://www.inrl.us/index.php

Hope you have a great Monday!

*used blog 4/1/2021 The model of Mothering in the heart of Jesus

Javier Oswaldo Rios Calcedo

Jesus said, "I am humble and meek, learn from me,"

Darkness  crept over the crowded city as shadows danced upon the roof tops and meandered through the roads. What a week it had been walking the roads with Jesus, talking to the broken, the sad, the accusing, the curious--that stream of humanity that always grasped for a part of Jesus' day.

 In reality, dusty roads, thousands filing back forth on rutted pathways, noisy crowds, squealing babies, husky voices selling their market wares, wheels churning sand and thrumming on old roads, hungry bellies, and exhilirating conversation all spun together in the minutes of the disciples' lives to make this day, for them, much like any other they had shared over their years with Jesus. How could they possibly have known what the next 24 hours would hold.

The promise Passover celebration brought a familiar comfort to the weary men who had gathered over the memory of God's protection since they were children. Strong herbs blending with the smoky lanterns and be the fresh smell of bread baking, wafted through the home where they would meet in the upper portion of the house together.

And yet, Jesus, knowing that He had cast the stars into their place, that He existed for eternity past in splendor of light and perfect fellowship with the Father, where myriads of angels bowed before him and worshipped,

and also knowing He was soon going to be subjected to hysterical crowds, violent soldiers, aggressive, poisonous jeers and beating, and finally a terrifying death,

willingly, generously, intentionally,  knelt down on the rough sandy carpet, girded himself with a towel, and gently and lovingly wiped the dust off of his beloved friends dirty, stinky feet, all the while speaking in soothing tones, teaching one last bit of wisdom,

"In this world you will have tribulation, but take courage,"

"I will send a helper who will be with you always and He will bring to mind all that I have told you."

"Love one another,"

"I am the light of the world. Believe in me."

Always his heart and words were focussed on his beloved band of friends. Always, He was thinking of how to prepare them, to strengthen them.

Not even in His death, did he focus on His own needs.

"I am humble and meek, learn from me," He said.

All of this for those who could not have known the sacrifice, the depth of choices to humble Himself, or the vast generosity that was being expended from a heart overflowing with love focussed on them. Only maturity would bring gratefulness.

And so, in pondering, I must ask myself, does my heart remain humble as I wash feet, serve a meal? Are my words life-giving and generous, serving to strengthen in my home, with my heart, like the heart of Jesus always on those he served? Do I bow willingly in the dust and stink of my own life because He was so willing to spend His life in giving, serving, loving without thought of Himself, even in His death?

And so, as I come to this night, the night of remembering Him, my heart is overwhelmed with His humility, His focus, His total self-giving without expecting anything in return, and my heart is bowed down with deep gratefulness that this is the God who has called me to serve--never asking anything of me that He did not so willingly do and model so that I would understand the heart and the how of living in such a way.

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Little Joy at 3 when she had bouts of nocturnal asthma, the first story Mission of Motherhood

"I want my home to be a laboratory of life, a place where my children and husband may flourish and feel loved, encouraged, spiritually refreshed, and emotionally prepared to face the work God has for them in life. I want it to be a place where they can learn in safety yet be challenged to grow."

"I also want my home to be the best place to be in the minds of my family. Peace and acceptance, excellence and a passion for living, comfort and funn–I want all these qualities to come to my children’s minds when they think about home. If I can succeed in creating a nurturing environment that speaks peace to their souls even as it helps them grow, I will feel that I have done my job as keeper of my domain."

"I had years of time as a single woman when I was ruler over most of my minutes. I decided when I would eat, sleep, vacation, work, or meet someone for lunch. I decided these issues according to my needs and desires. But once I had my children, as any mother will understand, my time was never my own again! Children simply don’t fit into neat little time packages.…children, by definition, take up our time. They’re supposed to do that; it’s the way God made them. But if we don’t recognize or accept that fact…as many mothers today don’t–we’re bound to make things difficult for ourselves and our children."

All of this from Mission of Motherhood, by me! Sally Clarkson

Join me today with a video and the beginning of a book discussion and online study of The Mission of Motherhood

 In The Mission of Motherhood Sally moves beyond inspiration and encouragement, to instruction, vision, and mission as she explores the biblical design of God for mothers that transcends cultures and trends. Drawing on challenging insights from Scripture enlightened by her own experiences as a mother for 18 years, Sally draws a biblical and very personal portrait of motherhood that reveals the heart of God for all mothers of all times. This book, filled with personal anecdotes and stories, will refresh your vision for biblical motherhood, renew your commitment to your precious children, and prayerfully bring the reviving Spirit of God into your home and family.

AND JOIN US ON MOMHEART.ORG FOR A FREE DOWNLOAD OF A CONFERENCE TALK!

And the winners of the two talks each from last week are:

Andrea Manor

Lindsey Bell

* used Blog 4/29/2021 Lighten up and don't make us feel so guilty....

Joy, befriending a manikin in Boston

My children are naturally given to enjoying life and giggling and doing loud or outlandish things and of course making messes along the way. As a mom who is busy and has an agenda, I am usually in a purposeful, intentional "get my list done," sort of mode.  Two of them are great clowns and make us laugh all the time--if I am in the mood to laugh!

I remember once when I came into the living room where my children were all lounging and talking and munching on snacks and giggling together, after we had just returned home from a trip. It was really a lovely moment--and now in my mind, going back to that memory when we were all small enough to gather on one couch and laugh together, I would give a zillion just to have them here doing such a thing again. My boys always liked it when I admired their silly jokes or really looked at the books, songs, pictures, youtubes that made them laugh. It was a willingness to  entering in to their worlds and a validation of their moments.

But, the house was all awry and as I walked into the house, I was taking on General Mom and putting aside "easy going" mom and  my sense of humor or willingness to celebrate life.

I ignored their contented togetherness and took on my best authoritative voice. I meted out all that would need to be accomplished--bags unpacked, clothes washed, house straightened, mail sorted, rooms cleaned, groceries bought, and I was just starting.

My oldest son looked up at me and said, "Mom, don't worry, we will get it all done and then it will just get messy again and then we will get it all done again, but please just lighten up a little and enjoy a few minutes of down time. We love having you join in our revelry. We just got home and we are just having fun for a few minutes--just a few minutes."

"When you are happy, we are all happy and when you get upset, we all start feeling generally guilty. So lighten up, enjoy us, and we promise we will help you get it all done."

I took  his advice. Guilt never motivates or makes my children work more effectively.

Looking at them at each stage--really looking at their quirky smiles, their unique personalities, their bizarre jokes, making time to enjoy life and finding eyes to see the small fleeting moments of each stage of life deprives me of contentment, joy and the blessing of having and enjoying these who have indeed become my best friends.

Oh how I wish I had fretted less and laughed more. I am off to look for reasons to smile and laugh and join in, amidst all of the endless work.

*used blog 4/8/2021 The Glory of a Mother is To choose to Love Her precious child

Brooklyn Museum - The Shattuck Family, with Grandmother, Mother and Baby William - Aaron Draper Shattuck - overall

Aaron Draper Shaddock

The glory of a Mother is choosing to love her precious baby.

"To your child, you are a rockstar - No other song soothes them at night like yours. And when you pick up your child from Sunday school, you have your Taylor Swift moment. You know what I'm talking about. That moment when they see you and their eyes light up. They scream your name and run to you with open arms. You are a rock star." Kat Lee, a precious friend who had no memory of her mother, (for the rest of the story, today, go to: Momheart.org

"Greater love has no one than this, that a man lay down his life for a friend." Jesus, who laid down his life.

 You are a big deal to your precious ones. Babies come out helpless, dependent, frail, immature, and when they look out from their little eyes into their world, if there is a mom to embrace, protect, love, sing, provide, give up her life so that her children may have life, the deep lines in their little brains that are forming a foundation of truth will be prepared to accept God's love and provision because of what they have experienced at the hands of their mothers. We are a picture of God's sacrificial love to the brains, souls and hearts of those He entrusts into our hands.

Yet, the miracle is that He trusts them into our hands. God trusted us to make a good decision. He empowered us to make the imprint that will determine what the next generation will become. It is our choice if we decide to embrace this very challenging role with grace, faith and the giving of our lives or if we resent it, develop anger and pass on rejection to our children.

Yet, I never understood or was taught or trained to understand the sacrifice this role would require of me. In one of the most significant roles God created that would indeed determine the very outcome and moral character and faith of the next generation, I and most of my generation and most of you were never trained, instructed, supported or inspired in this immanently important role.

Is there a place in our current culture that can truly appreciate the sacrifice and validate the spending of our lives for this eternal purpose?

Yesterday, I received a note from a sweet friend of mine who lives far away on the east coast and how I miss her. She is an excellent mom, a spiritually mature woman, growing in the Lord, and has a heart to focus on His love and grace.

She said, "I was not feeling like an excellent woman today.  I have been battling severe sickness with all of my family this week, actually over a week, which caused me to have to cancel a weekend alone with my husband for a much needed getaway.  I was ill with this stomach bug for the last two days, and then last night my dear husband and I had a very rare argument, that was devastating, and shortly after my 6 year old began throwing up all night and I (unsuccessfully) slept on her floor, as she was up every 30 minutes to an hour, so this morning my husband had to leave very early on the business trip he had to attend,  very sadly on "our" trip, without me,  alone, and me with 3 more ill children throwing up as he walked out the door. I really try not to let "stuff" get to me and am usually trying to focus on the Lord, but this morning I was sad, angry, sleep deprived and not feeling like such a great woman."

You see, most of our life is invisible--this noble cause we embrace is often fraught with challenge, exhaustion, relentless repetition, emotion draining, spiritual challenge, and yet this is the very place of our worship. This is the place faith is being forged and character is being modeled and love is going deep into the heart and mind of your children. This is why I champion the cause of motherhood. What you are doing matters so much. And most of all, Jesus, who sacrificed his time, emotions, and ultimately body and freedom, sees you and is so very pleased and cheers you on from the heavenly realm.

No one said to me, "Yeah, Sally, you chose to be patient with one more ear infection and sleepless night! Congratulations, you are the queen of mentally challenged children of which 3 are clinically ocd and 3 are asthmatics and one has some learning issues and all four are sinful and fuss and make messes and want to eat and wear relatively clean clothes every day. Congratulations, you are so very patient with those hormonal teenagers, you just waited for your toddler to get over his tantrum and you handled it patiently--you a hero!"

One of the strengths and profound work of a woman, as I have said many times before, is to bring civility and order out of chaos and to bring beauty, intelligence, excellence in subduing her kingdom of home into a life-giving haven.

And so, my home and all the little choices of each day became my sanctuary of worship, my sacrifice of praise. Bringing light into the potentially dark corners of my life, singing and dancing and celebrating God's reality into the mundane of dishes, the late nights of Winnie the Pooh's and ear infections and the hot steamy showers, sweat and hollow exhaustion where my children felt the comfort and grace of His touch through me.

Yes, it is indeed an angel singing, worthy of celebration in the heavenly, choice for great victory, and the glory of a woman when she chooses to love and embrace her precious child as a gift and as a work from the hands of God.

An Excellent Woman: It is in your power to become one!

Beloved Sarah, An excellent woman, in England

Epoch women--women whose lives tell tales of great faith, whose moral strength influenced nations, who writing or leadership brought such light to bear in their world that history was changed, are rare and unusual in this generation. And yet, I believe God is so desirous to build his children, his daughters into such women. What does it take to become the kind of woman who will leave a legacy of light, beauty, life and inspiration? This is the theme of what I have been pondering in my own life as I am reaching new seasons. One of my friends told me that women will not listen to a video that is longer than 2-4 minutes, because they are too busy. But I decided that I cannot say much worthwhile in 2-4 minutes, so if you want to pursue these thoughts with me, watch the video! If you do not have time, I understand. But my desire is that by taking some time to make some video blogs, maybe I can be of some encouragement to some of you sweet ones--right in your own home.

Today, Sarah, my daughter, wrote a blog about her very favorite books that have influenced her life and many of her followers also left book lists. You will have a treasure of books to read if you read her blog and comments and these books will fill you with great stories, inspiration and ideas for many years.

Enjoy and join Sarah  at: Thoroughly Alive  

I would also love to hear your thoughts about your desire to be one of the "set aside women" for God's purposes. I am still a little unsure if vlogs is something that is meaningful to you, my audience, or if you would prefer all writing! Each comment helps me! I do read them--just can't answer most of my mail lately, but always sending love and prayers for you all!

My new banner and the story behind the picture!

Hilltop House, the home of Beatrix Potter

Chilled to the bone had more meaning to us as we huddled together, swiftly scampering along the cobbled road under too small umbrellas, and being pelted with the sideways blowing rain. Earlier in the morning, as we left our bed and breakfast, our hostess had said, "You're in for a wet day today. Wear your jumpers and wellis so you don't get soaked, as the rain will be pouring all day."

Having no "wellies" (rubber boots English style) and only American style raincoats, we ventured out into the heavy drizzle with adventuresome hearts. Our umbrellas flew inside out  in the brisk wind and downpour so that we were just holding sticks that offered no protection. Literally, lakes of water companioned our steps and soaked our socks and shoes as we plodded our course.

Our destination was a boat, tied up and tossing wildly on the shore of a lake. Boarding the tossing boat was a daunting challenge amidst the mess of the stormy wetness, but the captain of the little ship seemed not daunted in the least.

The four of us giggled and chattered and wiped our faces and wet eyelashes as we marveled at the adventure in which we found ourselves. We had planned and dreamed of a trip to England together where we would visit the homes of many of our favorite English authors, since all of us loved books and the great literature that had stirred our souls. Dickens, Shakespeare, Wordsworth, Beatrix Potter, James Harriot, were some of the homes we would tour on our 8 day adventure. The reality of seeing our dream come true added to our sense of accomplishment and deep mutual pleasure, as we followed our well planned journey.

So the stormy sea just added to our excitement and story that we were living together in this moment. Yet, after 20 minutes bouncing and tipping upon the dark, tossing waves, we were thrilled and relieved to disembark.

"Walk up the path on the side of the road and you will see the way to her house," directed the boatman.

More rain, more wind, more muddy sloshing, but joy still fluttered in our hearts on this mutual story we were living.

Finally, stumbling through the little perfect garden, where Peter Rabbit must have played,  taking mincing strides toward the front of the house and  into the door of the tiny cottage we fell,  taking refuge from the wetness.

A fire was roaring in the grate of the small fireplace and as we began to take in the room, we knew our journey was being rewarded according to our great expectations. Charming was the word that must have started in her little, modest home. In every nook and cranny was beautiful, dark, carved pieces of elegant furniture--a chair here, a hutch there, and lovely little settee and inviting dining table. As we shivered and walked through the house, we knew she had been a kindred spirit, loving beauty, choosing craftsmanship and color and filling her home with treasures of her own finding. Having toured countless historical homes over the years with my children, I think this might be the most delightful and pleasant, warm and inviting place I had ever toured.

As we finished our inspection of all the corners of her little home, we knew we had to brave the cold and wet one more time. Steaming, strong English tea was calling our name, to cheer us along our way. Finding that the local tea house was closed this day, we headed for a tiny, white stucco pub that had curling, wispy  smoke danced out of the old chimney and promised warmth inside its walls.

A tiny, rough wooden table, against the streaming window pane bordering the pathway outside was free for the taking. There, in that moment, my 72 year old, cherished friend Phyllis, 13 year old Joy and 24 year old Sarah, three of my kindred spirits and closest of friends, huddled close, filled with twitters of laughter and the comradery of charging forth into our mutual adventure, knit our hearts even closer together as we shared our soulish thoughts, our dreams, and our hopes around the steaming cups of tea that warmed our hands and hearts.

This called for a picture, a way to capture the memory of joy

The precious hands of my first-born, Sarah--my beloved, on the left; the lovely hands of my cherished friend, Phyllis, 72, who has mentored all three of us and points us to the Lord in the middle, and the darling, soft hands of my delightful and truly "joy-ful" youngest daughter, Joy, then 13, on the right. Such a beloved picture to me!

This picture to me--the joy of love shared, memories made, fellowship embraced. When I think of my purpose in crafting this blog, itakejoy, several years ago, it was this kind of a picture that came to my mind. There is no friendship or companionship like that of spiritually strong women celebrating life and cultivating love together. Blessed to have collected spiritually alive, generously loving companions and the dearest of friends, is what has strengthened me to continue on my trail of ideals through out a life dedicated to finding light, beauty, and cultivating all that is good and godly.

Jesus always gathered people about Himself and then He shared his life. And so, in this gathering around all that is true, life grows and creates a joy from being together in His midst. Joy is best shared around friendship and kinship. And so my hope is that itakejoy will be a gathering of like-minded women, who long for that touch of friendship and kinship of sharing together in the reality of walking with Him, amidst the warp and woof of our lives and sharing together in the joy that can only come from Him, our best and dearest companion.

It's all about Him, just give them Jesus

My precious daughter, Joy, on a walk with me yesterday.

What a busy week--articles to write, people over for dinner, preparing for a trip with Sarah, helping Joel with a project, meeting with Clay over a new book cover.

Yet, God provided such beauty outside. He painted the bushes vibrant yellows and pinks, placed tiny buds on flowers, pushed up the first daffodils. God, in His glory as an artist, every day, places beauty, crafts color and form and loveliness for me, His child. How could I ignore what He has displayed for me, for us, for the sake of being busy.

The choices I make with the moments of my days speak loudly to the children of what is my real treasure and pearl of great price. And so, I want Joy to know the messages of my heart, that only He matters--serving Him, growing closer to Him, loving Him and extending Him to others, to live by faith, always choosing to believe in Him and taking the time to serve real people in His name--taking the time to serve her will teach her to take the time to serve others.

Beyond that, I have only a few months left with my last child before she forays out into the world to make her mark. And so, yesterday, I took her to a lovely breakfast, and celebrated life with her. Words of life and love became an arrow aimed at her heart.

The last impression I want to leave in the heart of my precious daughter is that Jesus is the foremost, He is the artist and creator, Her Father who has compassion, He will be with her always, He has called her to bring light to a dark world, she will always be loved because He is love, He will give her wisdom, He will show her how to be righteous and to live by truth in a lying world.

I want to give her Jesus for the rest of her life. That is the goal and the measure of my success as a mom.

Have I made Him the focus of my day? The first love I serve? Have I shown integrity in making Him real and walking in the power of His spirit in front of them? Choosing to extend generous love and grace so that they can know His grace? Because some day, I will have to answer Him when I see Him face to face---"How did you whisper into your children's hearts the secrets of the kingdom of heaven? My Love? My Kingdom work?"

http://youtu.be/vekkWK1fUVo

We will give three copies of Mission of Motherhood away next Thursday if you leave comments on my Momheart.org blog or here and promote the book study on fb, twitter, your blog and comment. We want to encourage a whole generation of Moms to live for Him and serve Him in their homes.

And in light of that, I want to do an online book study on the Mission of Motherhood--touching your children's hearts for eternity. I want to help spread the real goal of motherhood. And so, I will be hosting a book study, partnered by my sweet friend, Misty Krasaski. We will do videos and questions and Bible study. So be sure to purchase the books for you and your friends and join us in this study.

Be blessed today in His presence and celebrate Him in front of your children!

From Frumps to Pumps--a new you in just a few days!

 A New, lovely book, Frumps to Pumps

 - Your one-month motivational to getting dressed and staying that way

 by Sarah Mae

A few years ago, some of my older children and their friends were talking and they said, "You know, Mom, lots of your friends got off the fashion train at some point in their life--maybe their favorite era, or when they got married. But the problem is, they never got back on again!"

Ouch! It hit me right where I was. With little ones and messes and teens and keeping my house in some semblance of order, shopping and spending the money on clothes just got left behind. Slowly, over the past few years, my girls have "remade" me. I am certainly not the pinnacle of fashion, but it has been fun for me now to be their project and to go out with them from time to time and shop and bring home small items that make me feel a little more sparkly as I try to age more gracefully. I have come to love scarves and feel more elegant with one lovely one wrapped around my sweet little growing wrinkles! :)

That's why I also love having sweet friendships with some of my mom friends who are my daughter's ages. They have great ideas, teach me so much and give me lots of joy. Sarah Mae is such a friend. She is brimming over with great, fresh ideas and her new book addresses some of these issues--reasons to cultivate our beauty and self-image as women.

Sarah Mae--my dear friend!

Her is what she says:

If you’re tired of being frumptastic, than we’ve got something in common. I’ve spent way too many days in comfy pants and pony tails, and I’m ready to kick those items to the curb. I want to feel good about myself, be more productive, more hospitable, and look nice for my man and my children. Are you with me so far? If you are, than Frumps to Pumps is for you. Frumps to Pumps is a one-month motivotional (motivation + devotional) that uncovers some of the reasons why we stay frumpy, and than encourages us through scripture and fun challenges to get out of the frumps and into some pumps (pumps is subjective. I like cute flats myself). Ready to get started? Let’s do this.
You can read about it and hear Sarah Mae talking about it here: http://frumpstopumps.com/
I think this book is a shot in the arm. It is a quick read and you can buy it in several formats!
Here are the places you can buy it for only $4.99!
You can find Sarah Mae's writing and encouragement, and always great ideas at: (http://www.sarahmae.com/stretchingintoblue)
We are writing a book together that we hope you will love. Out in early 2013!