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Little Joy at 3 when she had bouts of nocturnal asthma, the first story Mission of Motherhood

"I want my home to be a laboratory of life, a place where my children and husband may flourish and feel loved, encouraged, spiritually refreshed, and emotionally prepared to face the work God has for them in life. I want it to be a place where they can learn in safety yet be challenged to grow."

"I also want my home to be the best place to be in the minds of my family. Peace and acceptance, excellence and a passion for living, comfort and funn–I want all these qualities to come to my children’s minds when they think about home. If I can succeed in creating a nurturing environment that speaks peace to their souls even as it helps them grow, I will feel that I have done my job as keeper of my domain."

"I had years of time as a single woman when I was ruler over most of my minutes. I decided when I would eat, sleep, vacation, work, or meet someone for lunch. I decided these issues according to my needs and desires. But once I had my children, as any mother will understand, my time was never my own again! Children simply don’t fit into neat little time packages.…children, by definition, take up our time. They’re supposed to do that; it’s the way God made them. But if we don’t recognize or accept that fact…as many mothers today don’t–we’re bound to make things difficult for ourselves and our children."

All of this from Mission of Motherhood, by me! Sally Clarkson

Join me today with a video and the beginning of a book discussion and online study of The Mission of Motherhood

 In The Mission of Motherhood Sally moves beyond inspiration and encouragement, to instruction, vision, and mission as she explores the biblical design of God for mothers that transcends cultures and trends. Drawing on challenging insights from Scripture enlightened by her own experiences as a mother for 18 years, Sally draws a biblical and very personal portrait of motherhood that reveals the heart of God for all mothers of all times. This book, filled with personal anecdotes and stories, will refresh your vision for biblical motherhood, renew your commitment to your precious children, and prayerfully bring the reviving Spirit of God into your home and family.

AND JOIN US ON MOMHEART.ORG FOR A FREE DOWNLOAD OF A CONFERENCE TALK!

And the winners of the two talks each from last week are:

Andrea Manor

Lindsey Bell

* used Blog 4/29/2021 Lighten up and don't make us feel so guilty....

Joy, befriending a manikin in Boston

My children are naturally given to enjoying life and giggling and doing loud or outlandish things and of course making messes along the way. As a mom who is busy and has an agenda, I am usually in a purposeful, intentional "get my list done," sort of mode.  Two of them are great clowns and make us laugh all the time--if I am in the mood to laugh!

I remember once when I came into the living room where my children were all lounging and talking and munching on snacks and giggling together, after we had just returned home from a trip. It was really a lovely moment--and now in my mind, going back to that memory when we were all small enough to gather on one couch and laugh together, I would give a zillion just to have them here doing such a thing again. My boys always liked it when I admired their silly jokes or really looked at the books, songs, pictures, youtubes that made them laugh. It was a willingness to  entering in to their worlds and a validation of their moments.

But, the house was all awry and as I walked into the house, I was taking on General Mom and putting aside "easy going" mom and  my sense of humor or willingness to celebrate life.

I ignored their contented togetherness and took on my best authoritative voice. I meted out all that would need to be accomplished--bags unpacked, clothes washed, house straightened, mail sorted, rooms cleaned, groceries bought, and I was just starting.

My oldest son looked up at me and said, "Mom, don't worry, we will get it all done and then it will just get messy again and then we will get it all done again, but please just lighten up a little and enjoy a few minutes of down time. We love having you join in our revelry. We just got home and we are just having fun for a few minutes--just a few minutes."

"When you are happy, we are all happy and when you get upset, we all start feeling generally guilty. So lighten up, enjoy us, and we promise we will help you get it all done."

I took  his advice. Guilt never motivates or makes my children work more effectively.

Looking at them at each stage--really looking at their quirky smiles, their unique personalities, their bizarre jokes, making time to enjoy life and finding eyes to see the small fleeting moments of each stage of life deprives me of contentment, joy and the blessing of having and enjoying these who have indeed become my best friends.

Oh how I wish I had fretted less and laughed more. I am off to look for reasons to smile and laugh and join in, amidst all of the endless work.

*used blog 4/8/2021 The Glory of a Mother is To choose to Love Her precious child

Brooklyn Museum - The Shattuck Family, with Grandmother, Mother and Baby William - Aaron Draper Shattuck - overall

Aaron Draper Shaddock

The glory of a Mother is choosing to love her precious baby.

"To your child, you are a rockstar - No other song soothes them at night like yours. And when you pick up your child from Sunday school, you have your Taylor Swift moment. You know what I'm talking about. That moment when they see you and their eyes light up. They scream your name and run to you with open arms. You are a rock star." Kat Lee, a precious friend who had no memory of her mother, (for the rest of the story, today, go to: Momheart.org

"Greater love has no one than this, that a man lay down his life for a friend." Jesus, who laid down his life.

 You are a big deal to your precious ones. Babies come out helpless, dependent, frail, immature, and when they look out from their little eyes into their world, if there is a mom to embrace, protect, love, sing, provide, give up her life so that her children may have life, the deep lines in their little brains that are forming a foundation of truth will be prepared to accept God's love and provision because of what they have experienced at the hands of their mothers. We are a picture of God's sacrificial love to the brains, souls and hearts of those He entrusts into our hands.

Yet, the miracle is that He trusts them into our hands. God trusted us to make a good decision. He empowered us to make the imprint that will determine what the next generation will become. It is our choice if we decide to embrace this very challenging role with grace, faith and the giving of our lives or if we resent it, develop anger and pass on rejection to our children.

Yet, I never understood or was taught or trained to understand the sacrifice this role would require of me. In one of the most significant roles God created that would indeed determine the very outcome and moral character and faith of the next generation, I and most of my generation and most of you were never trained, instructed, supported or inspired in this immanently important role.

Is there a place in our current culture that can truly appreciate the sacrifice and validate the spending of our lives for this eternal purpose?

Yesterday, I received a note from a sweet friend of mine who lives far away on the east coast and how I miss her. She is an excellent mom, a spiritually mature woman, growing in the Lord, and has a heart to focus on His love and grace.

She said, "I was not feeling like an excellent woman today.  I have been battling severe sickness with all of my family this week, actually over a week, which caused me to have to cancel a weekend alone with my husband for a much needed getaway.  I was ill with this stomach bug for the last two days, and then last night my dear husband and I had a very rare argument, that was devastating, and shortly after my 6 year old began throwing up all night and I (unsuccessfully) slept on her floor, as she was up every 30 minutes to an hour, so this morning my husband had to leave very early on the business trip he had to attend,  very sadly on "our" trip, without me,  alone, and me with 3 more ill children throwing up as he walked out the door. I really try not to let "stuff" get to me and am usually trying to focus on the Lord, but this morning I was sad, angry, sleep deprived and not feeling like such a great woman."

You see, most of our life is invisible--this noble cause we embrace is often fraught with challenge, exhaustion, relentless repetition, emotion draining, spiritual challenge, and yet this is the very place of our worship. This is the place faith is being forged and character is being modeled and love is going deep into the heart and mind of your children. This is why I champion the cause of motherhood. What you are doing matters so much. And most of all, Jesus, who sacrificed his time, emotions, and ultimately body and freedom, sees you and is so very pleased and cheers you on from the heavenly realm.

No one said to me, "Yeah, Sally, you chose to be patient with one more ear infection and sleepless night! Congratulations, you are the queen of mentally challenged children of which 3 are clinically ocd and 3 are asthmatics and one has some learning issues and all four are sinful and fuss and make messes and want to eat and wear relatively clean clothes every day. Congratulations, you are so very patient with those hormonal teenagers, you just waited for your toddler to get over his tantrum and you handled it patiently--you a hero!"

One of the strengths and profound work of a woman, as I have said many times before, is to bring civility and order out of chaos and to bring beauty, intelligence, excellence in subduing her kingdom of home into a life-giving haven.

And so, my home and all the little choices of each day became my sanctuary of worship, my sacrifice of praise. Bringing light into the potentially dark corners of my life, singing and dancing and celebrating God's reality into the mundane of dishes, the late nights of Winnie the Pooh's and ear infections and the hot steamy showers, sweat and hollow exhaustion where my children felt the comfort and grace of His touch through me.

Yes, it is indeed an angel singing, worthy of celebration in the heavenly, choice for great victory, and the glory of a woman when she chooses to love and embrace her precious child as a gift and as a work from the hands of God.

An Excellent Woman: It is in your power to become one!

Beloved Sarah, An excellent woman, in England

Epoch women--women whose lives tell tales of great faith, whose moral strength influenced nations, who writing or leadership brought such light to bear in their world that history was changed, are rare and unusual in this generation. And yet, I believe God is so desirous to build his children, his daughters into such women. What does it take to become the kind of woman who will leave a legacy of light, beauty, life and inspiration? This is the theme of what I have been pondering in my own life as I am reaching new seasons. One of my friends told me that women will not listen to a video that is longer than 2-4 minutes, because they are too busy. But I decided that I cannot say much worthwhile in 2-4 minutes, so if you want to pursue these thoughts with me, watch the video! If you do not have time, I understand. But my desire is that by taking some time to make some video blogs, maybe I can be of some encouragement to some of you sweet ones--right in your own home.

Today, Sarah, my daughter, wrote a blog about her very favorite books that have influenced her life and many of her followers also left book lists. You will have a treasure of books to read if you read her blog and comments and these books will fill you with great stories, inspiration and ideas for many years.

Enjoy and join Sarah  at: Thoroughly Alive  

I would also love to hear your thoughts about your desire to be one of the "set aside women" for God's purposes. I am still a little unsure if vlogs is something that is meaningful to you, my audience, or if you would prefer all writing! Each comment helps me! I do read them--just can't answer most of my mail lately, but always sending love and prayers for you all!

My new banner and the story behind the picture!

Hilltop House, the home of Beatrix Potter

Chilled to the bone had more meaning to us as we huddled together, swiftly scampering along the cobbled road under too small umbrellas, and being pelted with the sideways blowing rain. Earlier in the morning, as we left our bed and breakfast, our hostess had said, "You're in for a wet day today. Wear your jumpers and wellis so you don't get soaked, as the rain will be pouring all day."

Having no "wellies" (rubber boots English style) and only American style raincoats, we ventured out into the heavy drizzle with adventuresome hearts. Our umbrellas flew inside out  in the brisk wind and downpour so that we were just holding sticks that offered no protection. Literally, lakes of water companioned our steps and soaked our socks and shoes as we plodded our course.

Our destination was a boat, tied up and tossing wildly on the shore of a lake. Boarding the tossing boat was a daunting challenge amidst the mess of the stormy wetness, but the captain of the little ship seemed not daunted in the least.

The four of us giggled and chattered and wiped our faces and wet eyelashes as we marveled at the adventure in which we found ourselves. We had planned and dreamed of a trip to England together where we would visit the homes of many of our favorite English authors, since all of us loved books and the great literature that had stirred our souls. Dickens, Shakespeare, Wordsworth, Beatrix Potter, James Harriot, were some of the homes we would tour on our 8 day adventure. The reality of seeing our dream come true added to our sense of accomplishment and deep mutual pleasure, as we followed our well planned journey.

So the stormy sea just added to our excitement and story that we were living together in this moment. Yet, after 20 minutes bouncing and tipping upon the dark, tossing waves, we were thrilled and relieved to disembark.

"Walk up the path on the side of the road and you will see the way to her house," directed the boatman.

More rain, more wind, more muddy sloshing, but joy still fluttered in our hearts on this mutual story we were living.

Finally, stumbling through the little perfect garden, where Peter Rabbit must have played,  taking mincing strides toward the front of the house and  into the door of the tiny cottage we fell,  taking refuge from the wetness.

A fire was roaring in the grate of the small fireplace and as we began to take in the room, we knew our journey was being rewarded according to our great expectations. Charming was the word that must have started in her little, modest home. In every nook and cranny was beautiful, dark, carved pieces of elegant furniture--a chair here, a hutch there, and lovely little settee and inviting dining table. As we shivered and walked through the house, we knew she had been a kindred spirit, loving beauty, choosing craftsmanship and color and filling her home with treasures of her own finding. Having toured countless historical homes over the years with my children, I think this might be the most delightful and pleasant, warm and inviting place I had ever toured.

As we finished our inspection of all the corners of her little home, we knew we had to brave the cold and wet one more time. Steaming, strong English tea was calling our name, to cheer us along our way. Finding that the local tea house was closed this day, we headed for a tiny, white stucco pub that had curling, wispy  smoke danced out of the old chimney and promised warmth inside its walls.

A tiny, rough wooden table, against the streaming window pane bordering the pathway outside was free for the taking. There, in that moment, my 72 year old, cherished friend Phyllis, 13 year old Joy and 24 year old Sarah, three of my kindred spirits and closest of friends, huddled close, filled with twitters of laughter and the comradery of charging forth into our mutual adventure, knit our hearts even closer together as we shared our soulish thoughts, our dreams, and our hopes around the steaming cups of tea that warmed our hands and hearts.

This called for a picture, a way to capture the memory of joy

The precious hands of my first-born, Sarah--my beloved, on the left; the lovely hands of my cherished friend, Phyllis, 72, who has mentored all three of us and points us to the Lord in the middle, and the darling, soft hands of my delightful and truly "joy-ful" youngest daughter, Joy, then 13, on the right. Such a beloved picture to me!

This picture to me--the joy of love shared, memories made, fellowship embraced. When I think of my purpose in crafting this blog, itakejoy, several years ago, it was this kind of a picture that came to my mind. There is no friendship or companionship like that of spiritually strong women celebrating life and cultivating love together. Blessed to have collected spiritually alive, generously loving companions and the dearest of friends, is what has strengthened me to continue on my trail of ideals through out a life dedicated to finding light, beauty, and cultivating all that is good and godly.

Jesus always gathered people about Himself and then He shared his life. And so, in this gathering around all that is true, life grows and creates a joy from being together in His midst. Joy is best shared around friendship and kinship. And so my hope is that itakejoy will be a gathering of like-minded women, who long for that touch of friendship and kinship of sharing together in the reality of walking with Him, amidst the warp and woof of our lives and sharing together in the joy that can only come from Him, our best and dearest companion.

It's all about Him, just give them Jesus

My precious daughter, Joy, on a walk with me yesterday.

What a busy week--articles to write, people over for dinner, preparing for a trip with Sarah, helping Joel with a project, meeting with Clay over a new book cover.

Yet, God provided such beauty outside. He painted the bushes vibrant yellows and pinks, placed tiny buds on flowers, pushed up the first daffodils. God, in His glory as an artist, every day, places beauty, crafts color and form and loveliness for me, His child. How could I ignore what He has displayed for me, for us, for the sake of being busy.

The choices I make with the moments of my days speak loudly to the children of what is my real treasure and pearl of great price. And so, I want Joy to know the messages of my heart, that only He matters--serving Him, growing closer to Him, loving Him and extending Him to others, to live by faith, always choosing to believe in Him and taking the time to serve real people in His name--taking the time to serve her will teach her to take the time to serve others.

Beyond that, I have only a few months left with my last child before she forays out into the world to make her mark. And so, yesterday, I took her to a lovely breakfast, and celebrated life with her. Words of life and love became an arrow aimed at her heart.

The last impression I want to leave in the heart of my precious daughter is that Jesus is the foremost, He is the artist and creator, Her Father who has compassion, He will be with her always, He has called her to bring light to a dark world, she will always be loved because He is love, He will give her wisdom, He will show her how to be righteous and to live by truth in a lying world.

I want to give her Jesus for the rest of her life. That is the goal and the measure of my success as a mom.

Have I made Him the focus of my day? The first love I serve? Have I shown integrity in making Him real and walking in the power of His spirit in front of them? Choosing to extend generous love and grace so that they can know His grace? Because some day, I will have to answer Him when I see Him face to face---"How did you whisper into your children's hearts the secrets of the kingdom of heaven? My Love? My Kingdom work?"

http://youtu.be/vekkWK1fUVo

We will give three copies of Mission of Motherhood away next Thursday if you leave comments on my Momheart.org blog or here and promote the book study on fb, twitter, your blog and comment. We want to encourage a whole generation of Moms to live for Him and serve Him in their homes.

And in light of that, I want to do an online book study on the Mission of Motherhood--touching your children's hearts for eternity. I want to help spread the real goal of motherhood. And so, I will be hosting a book study, partnered by my sweet friend, Misty Krasaski. We will do videos and questions and Bible study. So be sure to purchase the books for you and your friends and join us in this study.

Be blessed today in His presence and celebrate Him in front of your children!

From Frumps to Pumps--a new you in just a few days!

 A New, lovely book, Frumps to Pumps

 - Your one-month motivational to getting dressed and staying that way

 by Sarah Mae

A few years ago, some of my older children and their friends were talking and they said, "You know, Mom, lots of your friends got off the fashion train at some point in their life--maybe their favorite era, or when they got married. But the problem is, they never got back on again!"

Ouch! It hit me right where I was. With little ones and messes and teens and keeping my house in some semblance of order, shopping and spending the money on clothes just got left behind. Slowly, over the past few years, my girls have "remade" me. I am certainly not the pinnacle of fashion, but it has been fun for me now to be their project and to go out with them from time to time and shop and bring home small items that make me feel a little more sparkly as I try to age more gracefully. I have come to love scarves and feel more elegant with one lovely one wrapped around my sweet little growing wrinkles! :)

That's why I also love having sweet friendships with some of my mom friends who are my daughter's ages. They have great ideas, teach me so much and give me lots of joy. Sarah Mae is such a friend. She is brimming over with great, fresh ideas and her new book addresses some of these issues--reasons to cultivate our beauty and self-image as women.

Sarah Mae--my dear friend!

Her is what she says:

If you’re tired of being frumptastic, than we’ve got something in common. I’ve spent way too many days in comfy pants and pony tails, and I’m ready to kick those items to the curb. I want to feel good about myself, be more productive, more hospitable, and look nice for my man and my children. Are you with me so far? If you are, than Frumps to Pumps is for you. Frumps to Pumps is a one-month motivotional (motivation + devotional) that uncovers some of the reasons why we stay frumpy, and than encourages us through scripture and fun challenges to get out of the frumps and into some pumps (pumps is subjective. I like cute flats myself). Ready to get started? Let’s do this.
You can read about it and hear Sarah Mae talking about it here: http://frumpstopumps.com/
I think this book is a shot in the arm. It is a quick read and you can buy it in several formats!
Here are the places you can buy it for only $4.99!
You can find Sarah Mae's writing and encouragement, and always great ideas at: (http://www.sarahmae.com/stretchingintoblue)
We are writing a book together that we hope you will love. Out in early 2013!

The Myth of a Perfect Life

First attempt

second attempt

Third time's the charm

Seems like in all areas of life, maturity, productivity, effectiveness is a process--often takes practice to begin getting it right--just like these pictures--finally we got an acceptable one.

No one is perfect--our lives take many days, months, years of practice and hard work to come out fruitful in time.

One of my friends said, "Sally, it seems with all of your candle lighting and tea cups and flowers and focus on joy, that your life was just easier than mine and that you had  more perfect  children.

We are surrounded by myths or women who seem to "have it more together" than we do. But the reality is, we are living in a fallen world and there will always be challenges, obstacles, temptations and weariness. But the glory of a woman is to learn how to overcome and civilize--and the key to lasting well is living in grace, rest, peace and love.

Join me today on

Momheart.org

for a video blog about the Myth of a Perfect Life and how to accept limitations and live with grace and peace and joy.

Let me know how you like these little videos as I am hoping to more snippets from the conferences online, like this, to bring my talks to life online--and you can find many of them now on our bookstore on this blog, at momheart.org and at wholeheart.org.

We are slowly trying to get blogs, messages and resources out there to encourage you because we have been so blessed by your lives.

Have a grace-filled day!

(The video is up on Momheart.org now--still working out the glitches!)

Easing into Monday--a necessity in order to last the long distance life run

Coffee at one of my favorite Austrian cafes--always in a china cup, always a little spoon to stir with, always flowers and always a little glass of water to chase it down. Wish there was such a cafe down the street!

Do you ever feel like more people want you and there is more demanded of you than you can possible give? Motherhood is fraught with a gazillion days like that. And today is another one. I am a real feeler--probably the most possible on a Myers Briggs personality test. I want everyone to be happy all the time, no conflict, all rosy.

The real life of a woman in her home is not a Pollyanna place very often. There are issues without, issues within, needs of everyone in my family, and people wanting me to call and people I should call and home tasks that need to be done, and so today, I am easing into Monday--taking deep breath, and figuring out how to manage this life--both public and private--to last long and to plan strategically about what I can reasonably hope to accomplish in the next few months and still be alive.

Today, after 4 days straight of being out of our own beds, again, and picking up the inevitable pieces. So, to keep my own self alive and to give myself a few little pleasures in my day, I am going to:

Have a white chocolate cappacino--just because I want one.

I am going to go for a walk on the trails near our home to expel some adrenalin.

I am going to sneak into my bedroom with doors closed fast and light candles, put on some music and just gaze out the window and sort out what is in my heart.

I am going to skype Sarah as she is such a chum, I will be refreshed to catch up.

And then, of course, I will spend most of my day getting things done--lots of piles of things and take it all at a casual pace instead of breakneck, as it will all still be waiting for me tomorrow, but today, I will give my body some pace to help it last longer.

But I have found over the years, what goes up, must come down.Weekends are always a little more adventuresome and adrenalin draining and so  Mondays are that sort of winding down and easing back into real life day. Weekends are off schedule, activities, sweets, church, friends, food--and then it is "getting back to the grind" Mondays.

I think Mondays are days for grace--be kind to yourself. Put beauty into your day. Turn on some music. Kiss a few people and touch them. Dance to music as you wash the dishes.

Get a cup of coffee with an extra shot.  Eat at least one square of dark sea salt chocolate almond. Forgive yourself today. If you forgive yourself, you won't be so grumpy and harsh and we all know that harshness creates tension--it doesn't create order.

"Mom, when you feel happy and sing and dance around the house, we all feel like we are on top of the world," said Joel.

Be happy, give your burdens to God. Everyone will be the better for your day. And so I am planning for a grace-filled day, because I know there are lots of demanding days ahead and I am pacing myself--with my heart aimed at joy, rest and whatever I can do to build the peace and harmony my soul longs for and needs. Peace be yours today--the Lord is near.

World changers in the making, The Rocky Mountain Classic, Denver, Co

"It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge." - Albert Einstein

Brilliant, wonderful, resilient speech and debate students practicing the art of thinking and communication here in Denver.

The ever present box of research cards for Apologetics.

Debate teams and such fun friends.

Joy in her gray and pink--the kids all have to wear professional suits of gray, black or a solid dark colors. She and her speaking partner, (her dramatic duo partner--always have to match--blouse and tie--it is tradition.)

All of this made me ponder the process of developing speakers and adults who can articulate their convictions and who can defend truth and great ideas..........

Candles fluttering in the cool evening air, music lilting softly in the background did not match the lively and loud conversation that was trumping everything else. Opinions were flying loudly, everyone fighting to be heard, laughter, more loudness and more opinions.

"Can't we just have one quiet evening where we just sit and enjoy the dinner table?" I asked wistfully.

Our nightly dinner table was the location of all of this brain life and our children and Clay and I were the participants. Every night, day after day, year after year, our dinner table discussions took on a life of their own. Books discussed, Biblical philosophy, scripture, contemporary issues, art, music, Hollywood, Washington D.C., travel, everything that could be discussed was discussed. Questions were always welcome and every opinion was evaluated. Articles read, people quoted, scripture and world view a regular subject. We would never consider exchanging television for what could be a rousing conversation.

Education is not about filling the bucket, Erasmus said, it is about lighting a fire. Education is not complete unless we pass on to our children the love of thinking, engaging in great and world changing ideas, and the nightly table is the very place for the training and shaping of great thinkers to practice. It is John and Abigail did with their children, and Sarah and Jonathon Edwards, and Napoleon with his own mother and so many more. A historical basis for cultivating a brilliant thinker.

Much as Jesus discipled his men or Plato and Socrates pontificated over discussions, we considered exposing our children to the best thinkers, writers, ideas and leaders and then discussing it all and allowing their brains to deeply engage in these ideas was the exercise of their brains.

Brain muscle or mental muscles is how we have explained it over the years to other young parents that have asked us, "How did you shape your children into speakers and thinkers, even though they have different personalities and skills sets in their lives?"

From the beginning of our parenting, Clay and I knew that we always wanted our children to have to practice speaking and thinking and engaging their brains to become communicators. Why? Because we wanted them to learn to handle accurately the truth of God's word, and Biblical world view.

And so, back to the Denver tournament, here at Metro Araria College, as I have been judging debate and speaking and Apologetics rounds the last couple of days, I have been reminded again, how important that parents teach their children and train them and cultivate in them the skill and desire to own their own ideas so that they may become defenders of all that is true in their life time. Speech is a great place to cultivate these skills with a great, positive peer pressure group of friends who are all thinking and discussing and practicing excellence of thought together.

The real heroes, of course, are the unsung leaders, moms and dads, who took the time to train, read, encourage and help write the speeches, to find the matching suits for all of their children, to travel far and near to take them to days of speech tournaments, and to spend zillions of hours judging and timing and counting ballots, so that their children might master this art of thinking and have an arena in which to rehearse for real life.

Great company all around and I sense the Spirit of God moving in the minds and hearts of those who will become the voices of the next generation.

Off to judge a few more rounds!

Two turquoise peas in a pod! Pretty cute!

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I have been overwhelmingly encouraged by all of you who have written, joined our new website for moms (Momheart.org) and have encouraged us with our new dream of an outreach. You have blessed me and my sweet friends who are helping beyond belief. We are most blessed to have you with us. Thanks for taking the time to help us reach others and to encourage us in our labor of love.